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For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Luke 12:34



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newsletters for kids

Did you know that SpringHill has three different newsletters for students? Is your child receiving one? If not, subscribe to one today!

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family matters

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Materialism. The word implies the desire to possess large amounts of worldly possessions in order to be truly happy. Yet this process falls far short of creating true happiness. If we, who know this truth, still fall prey to the seductive power of “things,” how can we teach our children? Learn what other parents in the trenches have to say in these practical articles:

How to Discourage Materialism by Dr. Michele Borba Discover practical tips for discouraging materialistic behaviors while your children are still young.

Children at the (Financial) Crossroads by Dick Towner Find advice on how to give your children a Christian perspective on financial resources and material things in the face of today’s opposing cultural messages.

“Daddy, I Want That!” Children and Materialism by Mark Ditthardt
Learn ways to model a healthy approach to material possessions.

Do you have ideas for ways to help your child(ren) avoid materialism? Email us! We'd love to hear from you.


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on our radar

calebrowden Free From Ordinary from Caleb Rowden
Finally, Christian music that you and your kids can both agree on. Caleb Rowden fills the gap with a radio-ready, pop/rock CD full of powerful guitars and sincere lyrics that encourage and inspire extraordinary faith and action in every day life. Uplifting to your walk with God and relevant to life as you experience it, the Christ-centered songs on this CD will be a popular choice as you shuttle your kids to all their fall activities. Learn more about Caleb Rowden, his music and his non-profit organization Wisdom’s Cry Ministries on the
Slanted Records website. Also, check out the Caleb Rowden website and see the band live with your kids at the SpringHill Music Festival September 22-23!

dean_thisismeThis Is Me: A Teen Girl’s Guide to Becoming the Real You by Jeffrey Dean
A regular speaker at SpringHill retreats, Jeffrey Dean really knows how to zero in on today’s youth culture and communicate the love of Jesus to teens. In this thorough, honest, biblical book, written especially for girls, Dean offers practical advice on how girls can know who they really are and claim the amazing life God has promised. For a personal journey from here to extraordinary, This Is Me is the travel companion every girl can use.

dean_watchthisWatch This: A Getting There Guide to Manhood for Teen Guys by Jeffrey Dean
Not surprisingly, Jeffrey Dean also knows how to connect with teenage guys. With words that are timeless and strong, Dean conveys a message of hope for teens whose lives are riddled with pressures and fears. Watch Me will help your son figure out who he is and discover how the Bible can help him get where he wants to go and live a huge life. To learn more about the author and his books, visit the
Jeffrey Dean website. Also, hear one of his powerful messages at the SpringHill Music Festival!


dear springhill parent,

82_Green_SH_iconNow that your children are back to school and your family is finding its regular routine, we want to help you with some of the big issues and challenges you face. For instance, when your kids become status conscious and are begging for the latest and greatest, where do you draw the line? How do you instill God-honoring attitudes when the culture tells you and your kids to honor your stuff? We hope you find encouragement and practical advice in this issue of The Source. You’ll also find great reviews, thought-provoking resources, all the latest news about SpringHill and so much more! Be sure to email and tell us what you think. We want to know!

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what's happening at springhill michigan

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Share an incredible music experience with your child that the two of you will never forget! The SpringHill Music Festival on September 22 and 23 features an amazing lineup of Christian bands from every genre! Bring your whole family to this uplifting, fun-filled event that includes everyone's favorite SpringHill activities and three stages rocking with music all weekend long. Check out the Festival webpage
and the Festival myspace page for more details, music samples and an exciting promo video and, of course, to register!!

Ladies, there's still time to register for the SpringHill Fall 2007 Women's Retreat. Let go of your busyness, your schedule, your worries and your responsibilities for one blissful weekend at SpringHill, October 12-14!

If your child will be entering 4th, 5th or 6th grade this fall, be sure to tell your child's Sunday school teacher or youth leader about the SpringHill Juniors Retreat November 16-18 or November 30-December 2. Get all the details online!

This is a chameleon generation, which is why the Middle School and High School Winter Retreats are designed to help students identify who they really are and know why God loves them so much! Tell your child’s youth group leader about the SpringHill Winter Retreats in January, February and March 2008. Live music from well-known bands, powerful words from hard-hitting speakers and the usual parade of extreme SpringHill activities make these weekends an absolutely incredible way to launch the new year!

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moving away from material things

As parents, we set the example for our children. If we are overly concerned with what we have as compared to our friends, our children will display the same concerns. If we are obsessed with having the next best gadget or the hottest new style, our children will follow suit. We know that it is not possible for us to buy enough material items to achieve happiness. But do our kids? The average child sees 20,000 commercials a year. Combine this with magazine ads, peer pressure and celebrity endorsements and it’s no wonder our children have such a bad case of the “gimmies.” What can we as parents do to discourage materialism and encourage behaviors and attitudes that honor God and show which Master we truly follow? Here are some ideas:

· Serve others. Finding opportunities for kids to serve in the community is a great way to teach them that showing God’s love and helping others is what really makes a person happy.  Plus, serving those who are less fortunate can really help kids appreciate what they have and not feel like they have to keep up with their peers.  Also, sponsoring a child through a child advocacy ministry like Compassion International can allow your children to make a personal connection with a needy child in another country. When a regular healthy meal and an education can help significantly improve a life, a pair of designer jeans may not look quite so important.

· Give stuff away. Another way to teach your child the importance of thinking of others who might not have as much as they do is to encourage your kids to “hand down” items they no longer use to charitable organizations. Pick a day each season to clean out closets, bedrooms, the basement and the garage. Also consider swapping and sharing toys, videos, games and miscellaneous “kid stuff” with other families.

· Borrow, don’t buy. As soon as they can write their names, help your children apply for and use a library card, which gives them free access to books, videos, music, computers and other resources for entertainment and learning. Using the library is a great way to learn that many of the things they like don’t need to be purchased.

· Set limits. Agree to certain parameters about what you’ll spend money on: clothes, entertainment, and so on. If your children want higher-end options, help them make a plan to use their own money to make up the difference in cost. Ask your kids about their goals and dreams. Help them think about the resources (financial and otherwise) they will need to make these goals a reality.


· Explain why. Talk with your children about how you make spending choices based on more than just affordability. For example, if a child asks for a toy you feel is overpriced, explain your values by saying, “We’re not going to spend our money that way because…” or “It’s not a good value because…” rather than just saying, “It’s too expensive,” which may give the impression that you would buy it if you could afford it.
 Also, think about what you buy and why, and talk with your kids about your values when you shop. Are you influenced by advertising? Price? Quality of the product? What factors influence your choices? Engage your children in conversations about how you make decisions about money. Knowing you are modeling and explaining may help you keep your own spending in check!