forgiveness without
limit
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked,
“Lord, how many times shall I forgive someone who sins against me?
Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times,
but seventy-seven times.” —Matt. 18:21-22
If
you keep reading this part of Matthew, you’ll come
across Jesus' parable about the unmerciful servant.
Basically, a servant owed his master a lot of money and couldn’t pay
up. When he was brought before the master, the servant fell to his
knees and begged for more time to pay the debt. Instead of punishing
the man or denying the request, the master forgave the debt. He
totally wiped it clean!
Immediately after, the servant found a man who owed him money
and ordered the man to repay him. Even though he had just been
forgiven a huge debt, the servant showed no mercy on this other man
who owed him just a small amount. As you can imagine, the master was
not happy when he heard about what had transpired. In fact, he was
so upset at how the servant had been unmerciful and unforgiving, he
had the servant’s debt reinstated and handed over the man to be
jailed and tortured.
Why
would Jesus tell this story? Doesn’t it seem pretty obvious that a
man just forgiven a huge amount would be wrong, even condemned, for
refusing to forgive something small in return? And, yet, it happens
all the time. Weekly, maybe even daily, we are wronged by others.
But God calls us to forgive. Because of what he’s done for us, the
lengths he’s gone to restore our relationship with him, how can we
refuse?
Think about this: Forgiveness doesn’t
eliminate consequences but it does change hearts and set
relationships right. Is there someone you need to forgive? What
holds you back? When you think about forgiving others, do you think
about how God offers forgiveness to you?
