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Making Time for Others This Season

Everywhere we turn we -and our children - are bombarded by messages of materialism and entitlement and greed. Even in a Christian home, it can be tough to pass on values of caring, compassion and unselfishness to children. How can we ensure that our children truly desire to serve God and put that desire into action? Serving others by volunteering and reaching out as a family is a fantastic place to get started. In this issue of The Source you'll find great resources and ideas for ways to get your children involved in service and to serve together as a family. You'll also learn what's coming up at SpringHill this winter and find out what SpringHill campers are saying about sharing their faith. Speaking of campers, we're exploring the topic of service with them in their newsletters this month as well. It's a great opportunity to talk about service together and put those words into action! 

 

What's Happening at SpringHill Michigan

Parents of junior high and high school students, pass on the word to your child's youth group leader - SpringHill Winter Retreats in January, February and March 2007 are filling up! Nothing compares to the worship, play and relationship building that happen during these weekends. It'll be a life-expanding experience your child won't soon forget.

Also, our Juniors Retreats (for youth groups with students in grades 3-6) will be underway in just a couple days: November 17-19 and December 1-3. Please pray for the kids who come to these retreats, that they might understand God's relentless love for them and claim their identity as his precious children.

Mark your calendars now for Spring 2007 Retreats. We'll be having a Mother/Child Retreat April 27-29, a Women's Retreat May 4-6 and a Father/Child Retreat May 11-12, all at SpringHill Michigan. Look for more details coming soon!

Serving Others with the Gifts God's Given

It can be easy for kids to think of service as drudgery or obligation rather than privilege and fun. How do you turn their attitudes around?  Ephesians 4:11-13 talks about how Christ served by giving himself to his disciples (and to us!) and about how he equipped his followers to serve - by using their gifts. When we use our gifts to serve, we are giving ourselves according to how God specially created us. In this way, service becomes an expression of our very purpose for being! Consider each of your child's gifts. How could you help them use these gifts to serve others and build up the body of Christ?

If your child is artistic... create a special card for a shut-in or sick neighbor
If your child is musical... spend a night as a family caroling in your neighborhood or at a nursing home or hospital
If your child is athletic... volunteer with a sports program for special needs students or help a struggling teammate practice their skills
If your child is social... serve a meal together at a homeless shelter and spend time showing love by engaging with the guests
If you child is great with little kids ... see if you can serve together in your church nursery or with a Sunday school program

The opportunities for service in our communities are endless! Check with your church, local school or Salvation Army to see what the needs are in your community. Also, be sure to look at the Doing Good Together website (reviewed below) for other service ideas. And don't forget to send us your ideas! How does your family serve together? We'd love to know and share your suggestions with other SpringHill families! Please email us!

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Reading Between the Lines

The Nativity Story (rated PG)
This new feature film to be released December 1, 2006, chronicles the life of Mary and Joseph as they travel to Bethlehem. Reviewers are calling it a "dramatic" and "compelling" portrayal of the miraculous pregnancy, arduous journey and history-defining birth of Jesus. Although it's a story we've heard in every possible way, this new film suggests an epic, visually stimulating, deeply human and highly emotional take on one of the greatest events in Christianity. Consider seeing this film as a way to enter the advent season with your whole family. (The film has been given a PG rating for some violent scenes; it may not be appropriate for young children.)

The Crippled Lamb by Max Lucado 
This touching and engaging picture book tells the story of the birth of Jesus through the eyes of a disabled lamb who finds a very special way to serve. A wonderful gift for any child on your Christmas list, the book has an important message for us all - no matter what hand life has dealt us, God has a plan for each of our lives. Also available as a DVD.

Doing Good Together
A treasure trove of awesome ways that families can serve together, this website offers practical tips, print and electronic resources, personal stories and service ideas and opportunities of all kinds. Founded by Jenny Friedman, the author of The Busy Family's Guide to Volunteering, Doing Good Together strives to inspire kids to care, to strengthen families and to build communities. It's a website worth checking out!

In This Issue...

» SpringHill News

» Using Gifts to Serve

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Reviews

» Tips for Serving Together

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Say Something

 

Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little.
-Edmund Burke

So two good things will result from this ministry of giving-the needs of God's holy people will be met, and they will joyfully express their thanks to God.
-2 Corinthians 9:12 (NLT)

 

Family Matters

Many of us want to show our children how to serve God by helping others, but we don't always know how to do this. In this article from Christian Parenting Today, "Give a Little Bit," mom, writer and kindergarten teacher Amy Veits shares practical ways to open your child's heart and hands through simple acts of service.

 

Say Something

1. How often does your family volunteer or serve together?
More than once a month
Several times a year
At least once a year
We never have

2. Where does your family most often find its opportunities to serve?
Through our church
Through the local school
With local organization (e.g. food pantry)
With national organization (e.g. Habitat for Humanity)
We create our own opportunities
We don't serve together

3. What most commonly keeps your family from serving?
Lack of time
Lack of interest
Can't agree on what to do
Can't find opportunities that fit our schedule
Haven't considered it important
Not sure

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What You Said

58% of parents surveyed said that busyness keeps you from engaging with your kids on a spiritual level. 16% attribute the lack of interaction to frustration with kids' attitudes and 13% feel unequipped.

As for what area you plan to focus on as your family pursues growing your faith together, 48% say practical teaching and 27% say private discipline.

68% of your families are most consistent about going to church together.



What Kids Are Saying

When asked about sharing their faith, "I would, but I don't know what to say" was a top response for elementary and junior high students. High school students said they mostly share Jesus in the way they live, not in words.

Blessed is how the majority of high school and junior high students feel about their testimony. Around 20% in each group are unsure of how they feel about it.

100% of elementary students surveyed said that they feel like having Jesus in their lives is an awesome thing.

The large majority of students surveyed in all age groups say that they have served God by serving others, but very few have served with their families.


 

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