Those who stand for nothing fall for anything.
—Alexander Hamilton

The reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself.
—Rita Mae Brown

 

 

 

play the game

ContestWant to win a free week at SpringHill AND a great waterproof digital camera to record all the fun? Go to the SpringHill Game website to play the game and be entered in the drawing! (Plus, we are giving away an iTunes gift card every month!)

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springhill stunt

aprilchallengeDon't miss this month's stunt — Bubble Trouble ! Find someone to face off against and get ready for some good target practice and a small taste of summer water fun. Watch the video to learn how this stunt is done or follow the directions below.

1. Get your supplies together: duct tape, two Alka Seltzer tablets, two sets of goggles, two squirt guns.

2. Take a 3-inch piece of duct tape and roll it so the sticky side is on the outside.

3. Stick an Alka Seltzer tablet to one side of the tape; stick the other side to your forehead. Have your competitor do the same.

4. Fill your squirt guns and put on your goggles.

5. Stand back to back with your competitor; then, each take three paces, turn and draw!

6. The goal is to use your squirt gun to dissolve your competitor's tablet. The first to dissolve the other's tablet (leaving him or her covered in bubbles) is the winner!

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talk about it

41_Yellow_SH_iconNearly every day we are pressured to conform, to go along with the crowd, to make choices we would not be proud of or that we know would not please God. The people we hang out with can be powerful influences in our lives. So can TV, movies, music, books, family and so on. Think about the inlfuences in your life. What or who has the strongest influence on the choices you make? Do your main influences come from a godly place? Why is it so hard not to conform and give into peer pressure? Take a deeper look at what or who is influencing you these days. Are you proud of the choices you're making?

Talk about it with other SpringHill campers and counselors on the SpringHill MySpace page. Or, if you have another question you'd like to discuss, email us.

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say something

1. Who is your greatest influence?
Friends
Family
A teacher/youth leader/coach/counselor
A hero/person I look up to
Jesus

2. What influence would your life be better without?
The wrong kind of friends
Television
Fashion magazines or other media that tells me I don't measure up
Negative messages that come from friends or family
Internet
Other

3. Overall, do you have a positive or negative influence over your friends?
Positive
Negative
I'm not sure

4. When you think about having free time over the summer, how do you feel?
Bored
Ambivalent
Creative
Excited
Relieved

5. Do you have your summer planned out or are you open for anything?
Totally planned out
I have a good idea of what I'm going to do
I'm open for anything
I don't think about the summer until it's here

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what you said

· 64% of you surveyed said that you gossip daily; less than 15% said you hardly ever do it.

· Why is it so difficult to stay away from gossip? Nearly 60% said that it's just easy to be negative about certain people; another 30% don't know why.

· The worst consequence of gossiping for half of you is knowing that you're sinning or disappointing God; 36% don't like feeling guilty.

· 50% said that you only occasionally have a difficult time sticking to your values; 38% said that it's difficult a lot of the time.

· Wanting to fit in is the most common reason you follow your friends even when you know they're doing something wrong; a few of you also note wanting to be liked and because it feels good as other reasons.

 

 

 

foolish or wise?

82_Fuchsia_SH_iconWe make hundreds of decisions every day, some good, some not so good. When you're faced with a choice, how do you decide what to do? Do you go along with the crowd even when you know it's not a wise thing to do? Last month's survey showed that more than a third of Bounce readers give into peer pressure "a lot of the time." In this issue of Bounce,  you'll discover why pressure from friends is so powerful, think about who is influencing your decisions and learn how to turn foolish choices into wise ones. You'll also find all the latest SpringHill news, great band reviews and a hilarious new stunt you'll definitely want to try. Don't miss it!

 

news @ springhill indiana



There's still time to register for Summer 2007, but majors are filling up fast! Check out the SpringHill summer schedule and the great majors for InPursuit. Then, start planning the week you'll be talking about for the rest of the year! Be sure to remind your mom or dad that they can go to the SpringHill website NOW to register!

Want to help SpringHill get ready for an awesome summer? Bring your family or your youth group to SpringHill to volunteer for a day on Saturday, May 12, or for Memorial Day weekend, Friday, May 25 - Monday, May 28. It's a great opportunity to serve at SpringHill and have a blast doing it! For more information, visit our website. Then, have your parents or your youth group leader call Pam Wilkerson at 812-479-0008, ext. 102, to register. Don't wait — space is limited! 

 

who's in your fave five?

Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm. —Proverbs 13:20

Recently a cell phone company has been promoting a special offer called "fave five," which allows you to make free calls to the five people you talk to the most. The advertisements ask the question, "Who is in your fave five?" It's an important question for life in general because the people we spend the most time with ultimately have the most influence in our lives.

Who are you hanging out with? Are you being pressured to do things that are foolish or things that are wise? The Bible, especially the book of Proverbs, has a lot to say about spending time with fools. Some of the dangers of surrounding ourselves with foolish people include deception, no knowledge, no light, folly, separation from God and ruin. On the other hand, the Bible says that hanging out with wise, God-honoring people can lead to life, knowledge, healing, honor, love, faithfulness and good things.

Think about this: Where are your influences coming from? Are the people in your "fave five" wise or foolish? Why do we often find that we are the "companion of fools"? What can you do to find wise friends?

 

a springhill summer staffer talks to bounce

82_Orange_SH_iconTarget Sports Instructor Khristen Shaffer had such an awesome summer at SpringHill getting to do activities she's passionate about and telling campers about Jesus everyday that she's coming back for Summer 2007!  A junior at Indiana Wesleyan majoring in biology and minoring in youth ministry, Khristen talks to Bounce about the influences in her life and why it's so hard to resist peer pressure.

Bounce: When you were in junior high, what was the most common reason you did things you knew you shouldn't?
Khristen: I was in a lot of pain and I did bad things to numb myself. I was influenced a lot by my friends.

Bounce: Why does peer pressure have such a strong pull on us?
Khristen: We're all looking for love and acceptance and when we're hurting or lonely it doesn't matter who gives it. If we don't go to God, we're going to go somewhere else.

Bounce: Who is your greatest influence today?
Khristen: My friends who truly embody God's love.

Bounce: What else influences the choices that you make?
Khristen: Thinking about the consequences and how my choices will affect my schoolwork or my relationships. Also, I ask myself, "Would this make my parents proud?" But the biggest thing I consider is whether my choice will disappoint or please God. 

Bounce: How do you influence others?
Khristen: Everything that I do has an influence. I think the little stuff is what really matters, like having a positive attitude or going out of my way to help someone or asking how a person's doing. Ministry is about loving people.

Bounce: What advice do you have for students about how to keep from being negatively influenced by others?
Khristen: Know that your identity is in God above all. The praises and put downs that come from others don't determine who you are. God loves you and that's what matters.

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now playing

fireflightThe Healing of Harms from Fireflight: SpringHill counselor Khristen Shaffer is a huge fan of this female-fronted band that describes their unique sound as having hints of emo-core, modern rock and progressive metal. But it's the direct and selfless lyrics on this debut album that inspire Khristen. "They are never diluted or sentimental," she says. "Fireflight never backs down from their convictions or their beliefs." One example is a tune called Myself. Lead singer Dawn Richardson sings, "You woke me up and made me learn to love more than myself." Khristen says this song helps her see that it's important not to just get caught up in her own problems and disregard others' pain. Instead, she says, singing along to this Fireflight track reminds her that our lives are meant to reflect God's selfless love. To hear some tunes and learn more about the band, visit the Fireflight website.

barlowgirlAnother Journal Entry from Barlow Girl: Writing songs about their journey trusting God and standing on firm on issues like purity and not dating, this three-sister band has been rocking the Christian music charts. A favorite of many SpringHill counselors, Barlow Girl comes highly recommended for their positive lyrics and their strong call to live God's way and be your own person. Read a longer review of this album and an interview with the Barlow sisters, Rebecca, Alyssa and Lauren. Or check out the Barlow Girl website.